You know something that really bugs me -- guys just have to do some simple thing with their kids, like take them to the park occasionally or change a few nappies or just take more than a cursatory interest in their child's life, and everyone raves about what a good father they are.
If you are a mother you can sweat blood, work your finger to the bone, nurture, support and cheer but one cross word and you are the evil mother from hell.